I am a solo mother of two beautiful, curious, wild, empathetic boys while working full-time as a teacher. I am constantly balancing many responsibilities. I also live with ADHD, so building connection and community around my family is important for our wellbeing. I express my culture through my appearance i.e. clothing, jewellery, and hair. I also express it through how I spend my time, whether that’s attending community markets and festivals (Djerriwarrah festival, Midsumma Carnival), gathering with family for barbecues and birthdays, or staying home playing board games with my sisters and our kids.
Since moving to Melton three years ago, I have learned that connection in the community doesn’t always happen by accident. You have to seek it out. That’s why I started a book club for local mums who work full-time or who are single or functionally single parents and can’t attend weekday or child-free events. Through this group I have met incredible women and built meaningful friendships. As a teacher, community connection is also part of everyday life, as I am often recognised by students and parents wherever I go.
In my classroom, culture becomes a way for students to learn from one another. Last year, my Grade Six class explored cultures that were unfamiliar to many of us but deeply meaningful to some of our classmates. Our conversations about why multicultural celebrations matter led to discussions about empathy, belonging, and how cultural traditions can create safe spaces for people to reconnect with their identity while helping others better understand their neighbours.
For me, culture has always been about belonging. I was born between two nations, with family and traditions in both, and sharing those practices with others helps me feel connected to each part of my identity. Whether it’s celebrating cultural traditions at my child’s daycare, attending local community events, or hosting Thanksgiving where everyone brings food from their own family traditions, these moments remind me that culture connects us through exchange, sharing our stories, learning from one another, and recognising that our differences are what make our communities stronger.